Unlimited Texting After 9pm

I have no idea what made me think of this recently but do you remember when there were time restraints on free calls and free texts? It was 9pm that we could have unlimited minutes and unlimited texts. Oh wait, I remember now. I was watching The Next Three Days starring Russell Crowe and Elizabeth Banks. There’s a scene where Russell’s character, John, is at the hospital visiting his convict wife, Lara. He brought along their elementary-aged son who is sitting at a table building a castle out of blocks. As this scene unfolded, and this movie is only 15 years old, I marveled at how things have changed. If it were anytime in the last handful of years, the son would definitely not be playing with blocks. He’d be crouched over a phone or tablet playing games on the touchscreen.


How do you feel about the adoption of technology and devices in the lives of kids, teens, and adults? I think most people (over the age of toddlers and teens) would agree that it’s gotten out of control. Of course, it’s not just limited to young people. I find myself attached to my phone more than I’d like. This addiction we’ve all experience in one way or another is why there’s an emerging market for “dumb phones.” These aren’t the Nokias and Motorolas from the early 2000s though. The ones I’ve seen are still smartphones but stripped down to just the basic necessities– phone, texting, navigation, etc. I love the idea. I crave a time when we have to be patient, waiting for 9pm to text or call. Back to doing things without our phone in hand. But… you go first. 😉

-Out of the Wilderness

The Benson Boone “Momma” Music Video and What’s His Enneagram?

I don’t know if there’s anyone who didn’t go far on American Idol but is having as much success as Benson Boone. That’s right, once upon a time he was a contestant on American Idol. His journey there was short-lived but his path to fame keeps going and going and going…


But the real reason I wrote this and you’re reading it isn’t because of his history with American Idol. It’s because of his song, “Momma.” As of a few days ago, the song has a video to go along with it and the video is just perfect. Not too much, not too little. And the ending is the sweetest. Gosh, had this song come out before I wrote 10 Song Titles for Mom, I might’ve said it was the best one on the list.


Personality Type. Benson seems to be a deep thinker, in touch with his feelings, loyal, loving, adventurous, sporty, and energetic. Based on these traits I’m going to say Benson Boone is an Enneagram 6 wing 7. “The Loyalist” with room in their life to be a curious optimist, too… hence the wing 7. His introspective, emotionally-connected self-expression is the source of this song’s lyrics. He sings of the love he has for his mother; caring about her past, her favorite songs, and also does the same for his father in verse 2. But let’s be real, the song is a tribute to his mom.


My Take. I’m not an Enneagram 6 but as an Enneagram 4 I can relate to Benson’s introspective side. In fact, I think a lot… probably too much… about everything. The emotions I express can be extreme in one way or another which is probably why I admire people who tend to be even-tempered. But at the same time, as any 4 would say, I love my personality and feel like I’m unique in a lot of ways.

The Parents. I’ve been experiencing something really cool since moving closer to family. I’ve always thought my parents were great parents. It’s been amazing to feel that admiration turn to this realization: my parents are great people, too. They’re not just Mom and Dad. They’re Terry and Fred. People navigating through the unknown parts of life just like I am. And I’ll just say this: They’re rocking it! Go on with your bad selves, Mom and Dad.


A Gift. What a great song from Benson Boone. Following up his song “Mystical Magical,” this gift to his mom is a gift to his fans, too. She’s loving it. They’re loving it. I’m loving it. If you love the song and love today’s post, click the ‘like’ button and take a second to subscribe. See y’all mother lovers tomorrow.

-Out of the Wilderness

Happy Memorial Day 2025

I love that my father served in the Coast Guard for over 25 years, which is over half of my life. It has given me an appreciation for everyone who served and serves… and their families. Memorial Day is the reminder of those who’ve chosen to put country before self with the result being the loss of their life. What a sacrifice. What humility. I’m grateful to still have my father and I admire him in so many ways, one being his commitment to protecting the country during his service time. They all do what they do so we can enjoy having freedom to live how we want without much fear of warfare. I’m grateful today to even have the option of a weekend with family at a small beach in Florida. There was a boat parade with flags flying and here’s one of my favorite pics when we set up on a pier to watch the boats go by…


-Out of the Wilderness

What’s that song in the yogurt commercial? Answers here!

The brand is Fage, the commercial is catchy, and the yogurt is… well, I haven’t tasted it but I can vouch for the commercial… it’s good. Scroll down for the name of the song.


The Song is “Live in Color” by Kali J & LiTTiE.


Pretty catchy song for a brand I hadn’t heard of until this commercial. What do you think about it?

-Out of the Wilderness

This George Patton Quote Fits Memorial Day 2025

“It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God that such men lived.” (George S. Patton)


(Photo from St. Teresa Beach, Florida)


For all the men and women who helped make this country as great as it is today, let’s honor them and celebrate!





-Out of the Wilderness