Author Archives: Ben Wilder

Every summer the guys in my family go fishing 20 miles into the Gulf of Mexico [fishing video opens in a new window here!]. It can be a lot of fun, especially when the bite is on. And we always know the bite is on when we hear my dad say, “Talk to me, sweetContinue reading “10 Signs She’s Not Into You… #2”

I can’t say it (or sing it) any better than Gotye did in the hit song from a while back. It’s all about a girl who’s not interested in a particular guy. #3 She changes her phone number. Double strike against you if she changes her number and has her friends collect her records. OuchyContinue reading “10 Signs She’s Not Into You… #3”

#4 She leaves hints hoping you’ll pick them up. And these aren’t the good kinds of hints, fellas. Like when you ask if they have plans for the weekend, and they do. Like, down to the minute. You can be sure that if she had any interest in dating you, she wouldn’t have just rattledContinue reading “10 Signs She’s Not Into You… #4”

If you haven’t been to Nashville before, consider this your invitation. Live music pretty much anytime of the day- from rock to country to bluegrass to classical, the city has it all. There’s a zoo, not to mention a couple of professional sports teams (go Preds)! And downtown Nashville was also the site of thisContinue reading “10 Signs She’s Not Into You… #5”

I learned this sign the hard way. It was back when I was on Match.com. I was emailing back and forth with a potential and we decided to go on a date. Great! Our first date had all the elements of being successful. A beautiful night in Nashville and tickets to a Ben Rector show.Continue reading “10 Signs She’s Not Into You… #6”