95 Movies in One Year: The Top Ten

1. (500) Days of Summer (2009, Marc Webb, PG-13)
Did they read my journals or something? How can this movie so accurately resemble my current situation? I loved this movie. The story, the presentation, the dialogue, the non-dialogue… all of it was great. Such a refreshing, creative, interesting, relatable movie. I came away feeling down about what the main character went through in this film, and yet at the same time I had a glimmer of hope. And I can only suggest that this paradox of emotions is precisely what the film-makers wanted the audience to feel. It was such an accurate version of real life and how relationships can be so great and so terrible pretty much at the exact same time. If you have the opportunity to see this movie, do it. And if you don’t have the opportunity, create the opportunity. You will not be disappointed. My favorite scene, as will be for a lot of viewers I’m sure, is the “expectations/ reality” sequence. Brilliant and spot on. The movie takes you up to the mountain and down to the valley, just like real relationships do. Very well done.
“Robin is better than the girl of my dreams. She’s real.”

2. Up (2009, Pete Docter, Bob Peterson, PG)
If you haven’t seen the movie, don’t read this. Quite possibly my favorite movie this year. Someone wrote a comment on their facebook page about how remarkable it was to show such a heart-wrenching love story without using words, and I admit, they are right. Right from the get-go, I was hooked. This movie has every element that a good movie needs, drama, action, humor, love, and a proper ending. My favorite character, as I bet is true with most of you, is the bird, Kevin. Loved that even when the young boy discovered the bird was a girl, he kept calling him by the name Kevin. Hilarious. Really good movie, great for children, adults, senior adults. Go see it!

3. Big Fish (2003, Tim Burton, PG-13)
At first I was not excited about this movie. That’s why it’s taken me this long to watch it (it came out in 2003). I just thought it might be a little too strange for my tastes. Boy was I wrong. It was strange, but I really enjoyed it. It’s about 2 hours long and when I realized it was about to end, I was hoping it wouldn’t end. I venture to say this is the only movie so far that I wish would have kept going instead of ending. Very creative, but not wild or extravagant for extravagance sake. I’m not sure exactly yet what the message was, if there was one. Perhaps life is less about the facts, and more about the story around them. Maybe? One thing I am reminded of after I see this movie is that I love my dad. Im so happy that we have never gone through a period of not communicating like the characters in this movie did. Overall, very good movie. You should see it. If you like to feel good, to laugh, and to have your heart strings tugged a little.
“Most men, they’ll tell you a story straight through. It won’t be complicated, but it won’t be interesting either.”

4. Taken (2008, Pierre Morel, PG-13)
There were parts to this movie that I thought were unexplained, and definitely kept it from being rated higher on this list. I mean, how many people can you kill consecutively with one chop of the arm? Surely there would be some that needed another chop, or a follow-up shot in the leg or chest or something. And how do you just happen to have all the equipment you need to perform medical treatments? Unless you’re MacGyver, of course. But despite the unexplained issues I had, this was a great movie with a satisfying ending. The protagonist was kick-butt and I loved that!
“I will look for you. I will find you, and I will kill you.”

5. Slumdog Millionaire (2008, Danny Boyle, Loveleen Tandan, R)
Unfortunately I had high expectations for this movie, because of the critical acclaim but even moreso because friends of mine saw it before me and said it was excellent. Well, I will have to agree with all of them! The movie was very good. From top to bottom it was full of action, drama, humor, love, fear, and emotion. And they accomplished this with little (if any) curse words. I have never been to India, but I felt like I was there with the characters, experiencing all the drama and action of their lives. And to incorporate a show that we all know, “Who Wants To Be A Millionniare?” was a pretty fantastic idea. I definitely felt like I was cheering for the underdog, and the payoff was everything it should have been! I love when love wins. If you haven’t seen it, you are missing out.

6. The Blind Side (2009, John Lee Hancock, PG-13)
The hype around this movie proves true. The story is really good. I did think it went on a little too long, but I dare you to resist getting into this underdog story. It’s a story of overcoming, a story of hard work and success.
“You should really get to know your players. Michael scored in the 98th percentile in protective instincts.”

7. Best In Show (2000, Christopher Guest, PG-13)
I love the type of humor in this movie! A simple story, with simple characters, but performed brilliantly. Just goes to show if you have a great idea for a movie, and have great actors and actresses, you don’t need to have crazy special effects and billion dollar budgets. I’m a fan of this one, and of Christopher Guest.
“And really, I think what we’re talking about is standards, basically; very, very specific, rigid, you could say, but in this world where would we be without them, I think. And notice where we are.”

8. High Fidelity (2000, Stephen Frears, R)
This movie starred John Cusack but for me, Jack Black stole the show. Some of the humor was a on the crude side, but it was limited. When I was watching this, I actually was reminding quite a bit of “Slumdog Millionaire” in the way the movie was put together. So thumbs up to “High Fidelity” to doing this kind of editing years before the revolutionary film set in the slums of India. Another good John Cusack film in my book, but if you watch it for him, you may be surprised who you come away liking more, John or Jack.
“She didn’t make me miserable, or anxious, or ill at ease. You know, it sounds boring, but it wasn’t. It wasn’t spectacular either. It was just good. But really good.”

9. French Kiss (1995, Lawrence Kasdan, PG-13)
Classic 80’s romantic comedy. There were tons of one liners and for me, that goes a long way. It also has a satisfying ending (did you expect to be left uhappy at the end of a romantic comedy?). So if you are into rom-com’s from the 1980’s, this is one you should see. I really enjoyed it.
“I love the sea. So beautiful, so mysterious… so full of fish.”

10. Expelled: No Intelligence Allowed (2008, Nathan Frankowski, PG)
This is a great movie for anyone with an open mind. The truth is, no one knows for sure how the earth, the universe, the whole human experience started. All we have to go on is what is around us. The movie explains how there is sort of a secret divide between theories of how everything began. And while it explains the secrets, it calls out those who claim that only certain ways are possible. It dives into evolution, Intelligent Design, faith in God, atheism, creationism, and many aspects of the scientific world and how science and faith sometimes (and often) intertwine. Ben Stein was very good at remaining neutral while at the same time questioning the established norm in areas of scientific discovery, faith and how both sides have a lot to offer. Very good documentary that confirms that while Intelligent Design is a scientific theory, it is much the same as evolution in this: it takes a huge amount of faith to believe in either one.
“And I suppose it’s possible that you might find evidence for that if you look at the um, at the detail… details of our chemistry molecular biology you might find a signature of some sort of designer.”

95 Movies in One Year

I watched 95 movies in one year and only had one rule: it had to be a movie I had not seen yet. After 365 days of watching films, here is the ranking of all 95 movies, from worst to best. Let me know what you think! After scrolling down to see the list, click here for the reason behind the top 10.
95. Miss Castaway
94. Gone, Baby, Gone
93. Year One
92. The Goods: Live Hard. Sell Hard.
91. Life As a House
90. Step Brothers
89. August Rush
88. Behind Enemy Lines: Columbia
87. The Haunting In Connecticut
86. Martian Child
85. Backwoods
84. Harem Scarem
83. Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy
82. I Want Someone To Eat Cheese With
81. Mean Girls
80. Fast Times At Ridgemont High
79. Dark Water (Japanese)
78. The National Tree
77. Role Models
76. The International
75. Ratatouille
74. Inkheart
73. 17 Again
72. In Bruges
71. Grosse Pointe Blank
70. Burn After Reading
69. Blue Hawaii
68. School of Rock
67. Waitress
66. I Love You, Man
65. Dark Water (American)
64. Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants
63. The Soloist
62. Darjeeling Limited
61. Spinal Tap
60. The Ultimate Gift
59. The Last of the Mohicans
58. Public Enemies
57. The Proposal
56. Bride Wars
55. Australia
54. The Wrestler
53. Bride & Prejudice
52. Death Race
51. Henry Poole Is Here
50. Everything Is Illuminated
49. Evan Almighty
48. The Second Chance
47. Pride & Prejudice
46. Night At the Museum: Battle of the Smithsonian
45. Eagle Eye
44. Transformers: Rise of the Fallen
43. Rabbit-Proof Fence
42. Broadcast News
41. The Big Lebowski
40. Memoirs of A Geisha
39. Yes Man
38. Let The Right One In
37. Gomorrah
36. Mamma Mia
35. He’s Just Not That Into You
34. Snakes On A Plane
33. A Good Year
32. James Bond: Quantum of Solace
31. Obsessed
30. Hotel Rwanda
29. North Country
28. For Your Consideration
27. The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
26. Waiting For Guffman
25. Chaos Theory
24. Mystic River
23. Reservation Road
22. The Sure Thing
21. Madea Goes To Jail
20. Chronicles of Narnia: Prince Caspian
19. Secondhand Lions
18. Gran Torino
17. Behind Enemy Lines: Axis of Evil
16. The Butterfly Effect
15. Seven Pounds
14. Happy Feet
13. The Brothers Bloom
12. Garden State
11. Into The Wild
10. Expelled: No Intelligence Allowed
9. French Kiss
8. High Fidelity
7. Best In Show
6. The Blind Side
5. Slumdog Millionaire
4. Taken
3. Big Fish
2. Up
1. (500) Days of Summer

Follow My Head or My Heart

Saturday was one of those open the windows turn on the record kind of days, so that’s exactly what I did. My roommate, who will always remain nameless (especially when discussing The Bachelor or The Bachelorette), and I listened to a few albums, including Hi Infidelity from REO Speedwagon. The record has great songs on it like “Don’t Let Him Go” and “Take It On the Run.” There’s another song on there that sparked some converstation between Unnamed Guy #1 (my roommate). You can listen to the song here:

The lyrics ask, “Should I follow my head or follow my heart?” My roommate and I decided the best option is to balance the two because if you only follow your head, you could end up exhausted, bored and alone. But if you follow your heart only, you could end up poor, homeless and jaded. By tempering your decisions with thought and emotion, you could end up wealthy, comfortable, happy and satisfied (but of course, there are exceptions to every rule). What about in dating or marriage relationships; should we follow our hearts or our heads? Is there a happy medium? Does this question yield different answers in a business scenario? Comment below, and as always… thanks for reading!

Apathy in America: To respect our flag or not?

Disrespecting the American flag is a relatively new phenomenon. It was only in the late 60s/early 70s that burning the American flag became popular among Vietnam War protesters. This practice was illegal, but since then has been covered under the rights of the 1st Amendment. Even in 2011, the question remains whether it’s the people’s right to burn the flag. Do laws against flag desecration violate free speech? That’s the crucial issue at the heart of the battle which continues today. For the last few decades, the Supreme Court has consistently ruled that flag desecration is covered under the 1st Amendment; free speech.

While I admire the passion, I cannot agree that burning the flag is, in any way, right or acceptable. What concerns me more, though, is that a lot of Americans are apathetic towards the flag. They don’t burn it, but they don’t fly it either. This has become more and more apparent to me in the mundane task of driving to and from work. It began one day when I saw a flag laying in the middle of a 4 lane road. It was trampled, run over, broken and torn. I wondered how it got there and why it was still there. Who was the lazy or disrespectful person careless enough to leave it laying there? Then I realized I was miles down the road, and had done nothing about it. I was careless and lazy. I blamed someone else for the very same character I showed. Since then, my life hasn’t dramatically changed. I didn’t have an awakening and join the military like a lot of people did after September 11, 2001. There was no big epiphany about how I should run for office or vote more. But I did make a heartfelt commitment to revolt against apathy and lazy disrespect. I won’t contribute to the decline of America, because it’s not the government’s fault. We can blame politicians, we can complain about the President, taxes, or war but change won’t happen until our apathy does. And I can tell you this, it won’t be the big things that change the country- a new President, going to war or not going to war, the Senate, the House, running for office, joining the military, protesting or burning a flag- it’ll be the little chances we have to reject our 1st Amendment rights and spend our energy on something bigger than ourselves. For me, it’s picking up an American flag whenever I see one on the ground. It’s my own way to respect the flag, honor those that fight under it, and perhaps contribute to a new American phenomenon.

click here for my post featuring highlights of Nashville, including the Tennessee state flag.

New Hope and Strong Threads

The sun rises on a flag flying
once torn, faded but still flying.
The storm came and whipped it around.
Still dripping from the night, but not backing down.

Emerging from the rumble
with breaks and bruises,
heartache and trouble
that nobody chooses.

Color restored, waving in the wind
watching my 11,786th day begin.

Strong threads and new hope.

She has my heart no more
than the breeze it takes from still to soar.
On her way to the seventh floor
like waves crashing on the shore,
the tide of something new.
The song I thought included her
but she’s not even in verse two.

A new future I see now.
What I thought not possible came true somehow.

A heart that’s free and a busy mind
inside a boy curious to find
all God has planned.

The one, the dream; I know she’s out there;
She’s got blonde or brown and long or short hair.

Ok, I don’t know who she is or where she is or what she does.
But soon her and him and I and she will become we and our and us.
We’ll get on the love bus.
We won’t cuss.
We might cuss.
We will trust.
We will definitely trust.

I love her already, I do know who she is.
Lover of all things good, a her that wants to be his.

I’ll be patient in waiting till the day we meet.
Till the sun sets on us at the beach.

The storms may come, let’s beat them instead.
Flying side by side with…
new hope and strong threads.