Being single at 38 years old

NOTE: This was originally written last spring but I recently decided to go ahead and share it. Life in and out of the dating world can be a roller coaster emotionally. Count the following as a moment of bare honesty on my roller coastery journey. I’m not exactly sure where this post will go, butContinue reading “Being single at 38 years old”

Brief encounters

I’ve discovered that there are quite a few people you’ll come in contact with that you might only see once…ever. In fact, scenarios like that are so common even Craigslist has a part of their website dedicated to these casual encounters, as they call it. While I’d recommend scanning those for entertainment purposes only, there’s obviouslyContinue reading “Brief encounters”

20 reasons I was single in my 20s, plus a few more

During my senior year of high school, I started compiling a list of things I’d love to have in a mate. The list started with broad characteristics that were must-haves. Things like Christian, patient, good listener, thoughtful. Had the list stopped there, that would’ve been great. It’s smart to have some sort of criteria when seekingContinue reading “20 reasons I was single in my 20s, plus a few more”

10 Signs She’s Not Into You… #9

This signal is a little more difficult to discern but if you take a few minutes to step back and look at the timeline of your “relationship” with this girl, it might be easier to see. It happened to me a couple of years ago. I met a girl named Trina one night. We becameContinue reading “10 Signs She’s Not Into You… #9”

10 Signs She’s Not Into You… #10

I’ll start this list with the fairly obvious. If she takes longer than, oh, a nano-second to respond she’s not into you. Ok, give it some more time but just being truthful here; if you’ve gone to bed and awakened the next day and still haven’t heard from her, she’s not into you. #10 TakesContinue reading “10 Signs She’s Not Into You… #10”